Working to be happy and happy to be working

By Marilize Jacobs

For the last couple of years I have been on a quest to feel truly at peace with my daily actions. As a single mom of twins and a business owner, I wanted to derive happiness from the fact that I was my own boss with the freedom to live my life accordingly. In a nutshell: I wanted to be happy at work. Really happy.

But what did it mean? What kind of happiness was I looking for?

Was it the freedom to sit and work on a beach with my laptop and cocktail in tow? (Highly unlikely as any working mom would tell you…)

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Or was it working towards being financially secure – always a big dream of mine?

Partly, yes, but there was more to it.

My ‘quest’ started in 2021. There I was building my interior decorating business, trying to find my feet within a post-pandemic working reality, and using rather bizarre marketing tactics to attract new prospects and recover my losses.

W h a t ?! This was not what I had envisioned at all. This was not part of my search for happiness anymore.

I had started out in the marketing/PR (public relations) environment, working as a brand/marketing manager for various blue-chip companies whilst also eventually opening up my own PR consultancy in 2005, VocalCord.

Then after almost a decade, I left my corporate job when I was expecting my twins and studied interior decorating part-time. Something completely different, but it always been an interest of mine, and thus Pigs Can Fly Interiors was born in 2008.

When one of my clients asked me to help them promote their newly decorated offices, I put up my (shaky) hand, and suddenly I was able to use my skills in PR again!

I started thinking: Why not combine my background and experience in PR with my current interior decorating business? Why not two careers?

The excitement of combining my different interests and expertise – and putting both my creative and strategic skills into practice – was unmatched.

You yourself may dream about switching to a career that’s drastically different from your current job. Many people do. But some of us never make the leap: the cost of switching seem too high, and the possibility of success seems too remote. Perhaps the answer is not to continue plugging away at your current job: unfulfilled and slowly burning out. Perhaps the answer is to do both!

According to a study published by the Harvard Business Review, two careers are indeed better than one. By committing to two careers, you will double the benefits: you’ll acquire new skills, broaden your network, and discover truly creative and fresh solutions by integrating two (or more) wildly divergent careers. When you follow your curiosities, you will bring passion to your new careers, which will leave you more fulfilled. And by doing more than one job, you may end up doing all of them better. Quite simply, I have realised that working more than one job makes me… drum roll please…happier!

Here are some of the main insights from the above-mentioned study, peppered by my own experience as a professional multi-tasker and loving it:

Networking: You will make connections in different circles

When I worked within the interior decorating business my circle was initially limited to corporates and home owners wanting to decorate their premises.

But by being part of two different career circles, I could selectively (and strategically) introduce people who would typically never meet, thus unlocking value and opportunity for all involved: journalists, graphic designers, marketing managers to name a few. This was also a way for me to give back through job creation by supporting and partnering up with various small businesses.

You will innovate

When you are working different jobs, you can identify where ideas interact — and more significantly, where they should interact. There was indeed a link between my two careers and I was subconsciously re-innovating myself. And becoming happier in the process.

You will realise that a Happy Work Environment is directly proportional to a Happier Life.

Post-Covid a lot of us are spending more time in our homes, often working from a home office. The impact that our home offices/homes have on our happiness has been relatively unexplored. Until now.

According to the World Happiness Report (yes, there is indeed such a report) research shows that often we look for happiness in the wrong places. Sometimes what we think makes us happy, but what really makes us happy, differ significantly.

Research conducted by Kingfisher shows that if you’re happy with your home, you’re far more likely to be happy in life. The most important factors are not where you live, the size of your house, or whether you rent or own.

What matters most is having a home that gives you a feeling of the following: safety, comfort, identity and pride.

The GoodHome Report by the Happiness Institute shows that how we feel about where we live (and also work from these days) is actually much more important to our general happiness than might have been expected. Here are some interesting insights from the report:

  • Firstly, they found that as many as 73% of the respondents who feel happy about their homes also feel happy in general.
  • Surprisingly, they also found that a happy home accounts for 15% of people’s overall happiness – a slightly higher percentage than the importance of physical health and almost just as much as mental health!
  • How happy we are with our homes also proves to be much more important to our overall happiness if compared to our income and whether we are employed, retired, single, married, or have children (all typically considered to be highly important to our wellbeing).

  • 74% of people who have an interest in and spend time doing home improvements are proud of their homes. And guess what? A proud woman is mostly…a happy woman!
  • Speaking from experience, I definitely snack a bit more when working from home as oppose to an outside office. 82% of the respondents in the GoodHome study who have renovated their kitchens are happy with their homes, compared to 68% of them who have not renovated their kitchens.
  • Renovating your bathroom comes in as the second area directly connected to happiness. As the average person “tinkles” every 3 -4 hours, let it become the best seat in the house!
  • The main myth busted in the GoodHome Report is that the larger our home, the happier we become. Here, how we organise and perceive the space in our home, turn out to be much more important than the actual size or number of rooms.
By Marilize Jacobs, founder of VocalCord Consultants and Pigs Can Fly Interiors.

So, there you have it. It’s your time to be happy with two (or more) careers and an environment to be proud of to boot.

In the words of icon Iris Apfel: “More is more and less is a… bore.”

Happy working!

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For the last couple of years I have been on a quest to feel truly at peace with my daily actions. As a single mom of twins and a business owner, I wanted to derive happiness from the fact that I was my own boss with the freedom to live my life accordingly. In a nutshell: I wanted to be happy at work. Really happy.

But what did it mean? What kind of happiness was I looking for?

Was it the freedom to sit and work on a beach with my laptop and cocktail in tow? (Highly unlikely as any working mom would tell you…)

- Advertisement -

Or was it working towards being financially secure – always a big dream of mine?

Partly, yes, but there was more to it.

My ‘quest’ started in 2021. There I was building my interior decorating business, trying to find my feet within a post-pandemic working reality, and using rather bizarre marketing tactics to attract new prospects and recover my losses.

W h a t ?! This was not what I had envisioned at all. This was not part of my search for happiness anymore.

I had started out in the marketing/PR (public relations) environment, working as a brand/marketing manager for various blue-chip companies whilst also eventually opening up my own PR consultancy in 2005, VocalCord.

Then after almost a decade, I left my corporate job when I was expecting my twins and studied interior decorating part-time. Something completely different, but it always been an interest of mine, and thus Pigs Can Fly Interiors was born in 2008.

When one of my clients asked me to help them promote their newly decorated offices, I put up my (shaky) hand, and suddenly I was able to use my skills in PR again!

I started thinking: Why not combine my background and experience in PR with my current interior decorating business? Why not two careers?

The excitement of combining my different interests and expertise – and putting both my creative and strategic skills into practice – was unmatched.

You yourself may dream about switching to a career that’s drastically different from your current job. Many people do. But some of us never make the leap: the cost of switching seem too high, and the possibility of success seems too remote. Perhaps the answer is not to continue plugging away at your current job: unfulfilled and slowly burning out. Perhaps the answer is to do both!

According to a study published by the Harvard Business Review, two careers are indeed better than one. By committing to two careers, you will double the benefits: you’ll acquire new skills, broaden your network, and discover truly creative and fresh solutions by integrating two (or more) wildly divergent careers. When you follow your curiosities, you will bring passion to your new careers, which will leave you more fulfilled. And by doing more than one job, you may end up doing all of them better. Quite simply, I have realised that working more than one job makes me… drum roll please…happier!

Here are some of the main insights from the above-mentioned study, peppered by my own experience as a professional multi-tasker and loving it:

Networking: You will make connections in different circles

When I worked within the interior decorating business my circle was initially limited to corporates and home owners wanting to decorate their premises.

But by being part of two different career circles, I could selectively (and strategically) introduce people who would typically never meet, thus unlocking value and opportunity for all involved: journalists, graphic designers, marketing managers to name a few. This was also a way for me to give back through job creation by supporting and partnering up with various small businesses.

You will innovate

When you are working different jobs, you can identify where ideas interact — and more significantly, where they should interact. There was indeed a link between my two careers and I was subconsciously re-innovating myself. And becoming happier in the process.

You will realise that a Happy Work Environment is directly proportional to a Happier Life.

Post-Covid a lot of us are spending more time in our homes, often working from a home office. The impact that our home offices/homes have on our happiness has been relatively unexplored. Until now.

According to the World Happiness Report (yes, there is indeed such a report) research shows that often we look for happiness in the wrong places. Sometimes what we think makes us happy, but what really makes us happy, differ significantly.

Research conducted by Kingfisher shows that if you’re happy with your home, you’re far more likely to be happy in life. The most important factors are not where you live, the size of your house, or whether you rent or own.

What matters most is having a home that gives you a feeling of the following: safety, comfort, identity and pride.

The GoodHome Report by the Happiness Institute shows that how we feel about where we live (and also work from these days) is actually much more important to our general happiness than might have been expected. Here are some interesting insights from the report:

  • Firstly, they found that as many as 73% of the respondents who feel happy about their homes also feel happy in general.
  • Surprisingly, they also found that a happy home accounts for 15% of people’s overall happiness – a slightly higher percentage than the importance of physical health and almost just as much as mental health!
  • How happy we are with our homes also proves to be much more important to our overall happiness if compared to our income and whether we are employed, retired, single, married, or have children (all typically considered to be highly important to our wellbeing).

  • 74% of people who have an interest in and spend time doing home improvements are proud of their homes. And guess what? A proud woman is mostly…a happy woman!
  • Speaking from experience, I definitely snack a bit more when working from home as oppose to an outside office. 82% of the respondents in the GoodHome study who have renovated their kitchens are happy with their homes, compared to 68% of them who have not renovated their kitchens.
  • Renovating your bathroom comes in as the second area directly connected to happiness. As the average person “tinkles” every 3 -4 hours, let it become the best seat in the house!
  • The main myth busted in the GoodHome Report is that the larger our home, the happier we become. Here, how we organise and perceive the space in our home, turn out to be much more important than the actual size or number of rooms.
By Marilize Jacobs, founder of VocalCord Consultants and Pigs Can Fly Interiors.

So, there you have it. It’s your time to be happy with two (or more) careers and an environment to be proud of to boot.

In the words of icon Iris Apfel: “More is more and less is a… bore.”

Happy working!

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